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Bob Sh’mal Ellenberg
The stories in this book are about the work of helping people with their transition from this life to the next stage of existence. Although, the author has spent most of his work life as a communit...lihat lebih banyakThe stories in this book are about the work of helping people with their transition from this life to the next stage of existence. Although, the author has spent most of his work life as a community based social worker, in his early 40s, together with his ex-wife, they began to care for elders and partially disabled people in their home. This experience of caring for people at home was a lead-in for him to work as a social worker for a home care agency and later in a nursing home. In both of these employments he came in contact with many people in the end stage of their lives.Like many people who experience spiritual transformations, after reading a number of spiritual books and practicing meditation and yoga, he began to feel he was on a spiritual path. One particular book, The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying, fascinated him. After reading it once, and then immediately a second time, he began to question whether there was something in his nature calling him to work with dying people.Each of the nine stories in this book comes from a different circumstance in his life. The first two stories are about his mother and father. Although neither story is about their dying, but rather the care he gave to them preceding their death. All the other stories are about the intimate relationships the author developed, each in a different way, helping the dying person. It’s been impossible for the author to know why this work came into his life. All he knows for sure is that after reading the Tibetan Book of Living and Dying he was soon hired in a nursing home as the Director of Social Services. It was there that something in him felt moved, almost like being pulled, to be with many as they neared death. He has total gratitude about the gift of doing this work. The author has five children and two stepchildren. Along with three of his own children, he has witnessed eight homebirths. Not many lay people have had this experience. There is a bit of wonderment about what it is in his life to have experienced those births and many deaths? One 52 year-old daughter came into his life in 2013 after not knowing each other. Yes, social networking has positive value. They are both appreciating the new connection. He lives in Palm Coast, Florida with his life partner, Linda Solomon, a well know artist in many cities on the North East coast of Florida. The author’s 40 years as a social worker includes working with pre-school children, severely emotional disturbed children, mental health patients, at-risk teens and in a hospital. While working with homeless people in Gainesville, Florida a video documentary was made about the work he was doing being a case manager for 15 mentally ill homeless people. It’s called A Sh’mal World. In his 23 years living in Gainesville he also had many essays on social and political issues published in the Gainesville Sun. Social work helped make him an activist for humane issues and in 1982 during the Nuclear Weapon’s Freeze he gave a speech in support of the Freeze before to the House of Representatives Subcommittee on Defense Appropriations. As a young man, in 1970, the author left Los Angeles where had lived for 10 years and went to Santa Fe, New Mexico where the “hippie” revolution was in full swing. Although having just turned 30 and considered “not to be trusted” by the younger generation, he felt he was part of this movement. Having previously worked with the Head Start program in Los Angeles, he was hired to teach at the Santa Fe Community School, an alternative K thru 12 school. He and other teachers who had recently moved to Santa Fe formed a collective buying 40 acres in the Ozarks in northern Arkansas. He lived there for two years, “primitively,” with no running water, only pump over a spring box, and no electricity, using candles and kerosene for light. He knows that living with nature was the perfect environment for the beginning of a spiritual transformation that has continued on. It was also in the Ozarks where he learned organic gardening and currently has a productive 40 x 30 foot vegetable garden.lihat lebih sedikit
Buku oleh Bob Sh’mal Ellenberg
Sharing Life with Another a Memoir of a Social Worker: Poignant End of Life Stories